For as long as I can remember, there has been a single element, resting beneath the surface, plaguing my golf performance more than any other aspect of my game (and yes, that does include those pesky, errant tee shots). That element is insecurity.
In keeping with my annual practice of identifying a Word of the Year, this is my yearly reflection and review on how my last year’s word showed up, and what this next year’s word brings to the table.
Why comparison robs us of joy, rids us of presence, and takes away from our true identity.
And... what we can do about it.
Being accountable for your current state, and taking responsibility for your trajectory and growth requires a heavy dose of self-awareness, intention, courage, and resolve. This is difficult and will be ongoing, but the fruit allows you to truly take charge of your destiny. Bringing in an outside and objective lens can be pivotal to your success here.
You are capable of so much more, of things beyond your wildest imagination. But it takes showing up every day for yourself and with yourself. It requires us to look deep within and embrace discipline, holding onto a deep commitment to do the work and to continue taking the next step forward. Partnering with someone who will meet you where you are and call you up for more is essential to finding and being your best.
This is a choice we make every day. This is who we are and how we want to stand in this world. Show up each day with honesty, respect, and a consistent and unwavering adherence to your morals and values. Find your wholeness and peace. Having a knowledgeable and trustworthy mentor hold a truthful mirror to you accelerates and strengthens your ability to stay true to yourself.